What would you do????

i'm active duty military and so is my finace, we're planning to get married this spring. but i'm up for orders now and he isn't!! i have a choice of extending my overseas tour for one more year and so does he. that way we can be together for the first year of our marriage. but my second option is to go stateside and deploy possilbly to iraq for 6months, while he stays overseas. would it be smart to to extend my overseas tour for another year to be with my husband or to deploy for 6months to earn extra cash for future big purchases and than reunite with my husband 7 months later in the states. his arguement is he rather stay overseas for the first year of our marriage and mines is i want to make extra money for our future. either way, im happy i just want to make the best decision.