Why is understanding so goddam rare?

How can it be that so few people even UNDERSTAND exactly from what perspective my questions come from? If we can all agree on the axiom of physics, and that we physically reside in a physical environment, why can't people see that existence is inherentally against us, as we only continuously perceive? If you disagree, YOU'RE WRONG, because thoughts are simply those of the 'mind,' PERCEIVED by the 'you,' which can be considered the spirit. In this universe of evidence-belief, any claims of God(s) cannot support themselves. THEREFORE, people need to toughen themselves up and get over the solitude that's intrinsically defining their existence.